Afternoon tea etiquette: 5 ways to look like a pro

Afternoon tea etiquette: 5 ways to look like a pro
In honour of afternoon tea week, Hot Drink Company are giving you all the tips and tricks you need to feel confident and look like a professional when out for afternoon tea. We’ve even thrown in three unmissable afternoon tea destinations to add to the bucket list!

A brief distinction: Afternoon tea, High tea and Cream tea

You may have heard afternoon tea being referred to as cream tea or high tea. Surprisingly, these all have slight distinctions. Getting them confused is a common mistake for those unfamiliar with afternoon tea etiquette but nailing the definitions down is bound to impress your friends!

What is cream tea?

Cream tea, quite literally, features cream. An extremely sweet assortment of scones, jams and creams accompanied by sweet, milky tea is a traditional serving of cream tea.

What is high tea?

High tea also has a literal meaning, traditionally being served at a dining table, which is taller than the coffee table other tea’s would be served at. When high tea was first introduced, the beverage would have been served black. However, in this day it would be appropriate to have your preferred strength of tea. High tea is far more savoury and does not originate from bourgeoisie society like cream or afternoon tea.

What is afternoon tea?

Very similar to a tea party, afternoon tea consists of cakes, biscuits, tiny sandwiches and other finger foods. A very casual and social event that is appropriate for close friends and family! Shop the alice in wonderland collection and host a tea party just like the mad hatter!

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1.Dress Appropriately:

Although there is no specific dress code for afternoon tea, it is important to look well maintained. A smart casual outfit is the perfect attire for afternoon tea. Arriving to the occasion in sportswear and baseball caps is not advisable, but it is important to be as comfortable as possible so that you enjoy the festivities.

2. Best Behaviour:

Table manors are always important but nowhere more so than afternoon tea! There are many small things you may be doing that are traditionally considered to be ill mannered. Here are some quick fixes to improve your behaviour at the tea table:

  • Do not stick your pinky up: a common misconception is that it is polite to raise ones pinky when holding a cup of tea. This is not the case, and could make you look quite silly! 

  • Always use the handle: Holding a cup of tea should be dainty and careful, especially if served in fine china. Handles were invented for a reason, it is important to use them!

  • Do not tap your spoon on your cup or put the spoon in your mouth: Silver spoons at afternoon tea have a very specific purpose. Using a teaspoon in an unintended way can cause an ill informed perception. Just stir your tea and place the spoon back on your saucer.

 

  • Finger food is for your fingers: Although you may be tempted to use silverware, and this may seem more classy, afternoon tea is served with finger food. Using silverware is not appropriate and could look clumsy. If you are prone to making a mess, ensure you clean your fingers with the napkin provided.

3. What to eat at afternoon tea?

Finger foods! Cakes, biscuits and sandwiches are perfect for afternoon tea. Served in tiny, bitesize pieces to minimise any untidiness. Traditionally served on a tiered platter, with sweet foods on the top tier and savoury on the bottom. Here are some of our favourite biscuits to have with afternoon tea:

4. What to drink at afternoon tea?

Tea of course! Any tea is appropriate for afternoon tea and alternative milk options should be available. Alcohol is also a frequent feature at a more classy afternoon tea. Prosecco or champagne are great options or a quality wine could be a nice pairing.

5.Where to go for afternoon tea?

Knowing the best places to visit for afternoon tea is a great way to encourage others to join you. Here are our top three experiences for the finest high tea in the UK:

Afternoon tea at the Ritz

The Ritz:

For a luxurious, high quality afternoon tea experience. The Ritz is famous for its fine dining and luxury atmosphere. This destination really is a must visit for afternoon tea!

Visit The Ritz
Afternoon tea on London bus

London afternoon tea bus tour:

A little bit of novelty doesn’t go a miss. If you find yourself in central London and looking for a unique way to see the city. An afternoon tea bus tour is an unforgettable experience. With all the trimmings and some great sights, what's not to love?

Book A Tour
Afternoon tea at Betty's

Betty’s:

Famous for iconic Yorkshire tea, Betty’s is brimming with tea history. This afternoon tea package will blow your mind with the most iconic Yorkshire tea ever!

Visit Betty's

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